About The List

The List was created as a private place to step outside the noise of modern dating, map out your experiences, and remain faithful to yourself. Designed to support you as you date in the real world, it was created by an independent developer and writer with a larger purpose: to help you slow down, look deeper, reflect, question, and move away from chaos toward greater depth through journaling, reading, and thoughtful reflection.

Save time and money by staying true to you and becoming clear about your values. There is someone right for you. You do not have to settle.

We believe dating can benefit from meditation and introspection. The philosophies, teachings, and principles surrounding human connection can help us better understand and love ourselves, one another, and the relationships we choose to build in a healthier way.

If you have feedback or suggestions, we would love to hear from you. Write to us at thelisthelp@protonmail.com.