Standards
Written down so a charming moment can't renegotiate them.
YOUR STANDARDS
HOW TO WRITE A STANDARD
Standards are the things that need to be true for a connection to feel healthy, safe, and mutual. They should also protect the life you are building. Think about your values, your goals, and the future you envision.
Goals
The life you are building, whether or not anyone joins you.
YOUR GOALS
HOW TO WRITE A GOAL
A standard is a line you hold. A goal is a direction you are walking. Write them where you can see both, so it stays plain when someone is asking you to trade one for the other. Think about the year ahead and the life you want to be living.
A departure from the surface. A return to the original you.